The journey of life is filled with different experiences, successes, failures, and learning. Some people may excel and others might fail. It would be great to have a list of do’s and don’ts for life.
What you should and shouldn’t be doing if you wish to remain happy & smile at the same time.
1. Never forget your roots
It doesn’t matter what you have achieved in life. Being grateful is essential. People respect you for holding on to those who have helped you through difficult times. It is becoming rarer and more uncommon to hold on to your values as you progress in life.
Nowadays, people believe that stabbing someone and then leading on is the best way to get ahead. After achieving their goals, some people are so superficial. They disregard the person instead of appreciating them.
How do you manage this type of person? Do not give them any importance. You can let karma take care of it, but first, you should tell them how you feel.
It is unfortunate that we live in a time when people take advantage of others for their own benefit. This act of tyranny makes my heart weep. Many people are now pretending to be diplomats, defending their position if they feel their motivation is questioned.
Only those with a high sense of value and regard for other people can overcome all odds. The rest are doomed to be crooks.
2. Keep Humble and Focused
Humility is inspiring. It made me giddy with joy. In most cases, when people are successful, they become arrogant or hostile to others. Constantly check your facts and evaluate your decisions and actions. This will allow you to analyze how you responded to the situation.
To be well-defined and approachable, you need to maintain a calm, relaxed attitude.
Discipline is the key to focus. You can focus your attention on the right thing if you manage your mind and body. All begins in our minds; if you believe that you can do it, then you will! You will get negative results if you feed your opponent. You can choose to feed your brain in a way that will either work for you or against.
3. When credit is due, give it to the right person
This phrase is used to applaud someone who deserves it. Workers are exploited by comparing their wages to the number of work hours. This is a way of reducing their value. This is often done by corporations and big industries to increase their profits. Is this not barbaric?
What will be the impact on a business? If they are not given credit for their work or a salary, then the employees and workers will be the heart of the company. The workers will begin to complain, become frustrated by their job and the productivity will drop. Is this good business? No. It is important to thank people who do you a favor or help.
4. Appreciate & Compliment Often
Complimenting is a way to show gratitude. Both are free and should be adopted as a habit. What will be the effects? Positive. How? People will want to spend time around you when you begin complimenting them. The majority of people are attracted to the trait of giving compliments.
5. Improvise on Your Skills
Do not waste a minute. Use the time that you have to grow, learn and adapt. Challenge your old self to be better than you are today. Test your endurance and push yourself to the limit. These habits will help shape you and make you unique.
6. Stay fit mentally & physically
To build a healthy mind and body, you need to start from scratch and focus on building a routine. What does it do? It rewires your brain and sends a signal of its effect in the long run and makes it the center to control & execute.
Fitness, followed by disciplined routines & exercise, will have positive effects. Be strict on your training, sleep, and diet. Fitness gurus usually bet big on food as it supports growth 75% and rests 25% is exercise & sleep. Knowing when to eat & what to eat is vital in bodybuilding.
7. Develop Meaningful Connection and Nurture Them
It is wonderful to have a friend, a partner, or a professional relationship. Take care of your emotions and be true to them. Happiness is often a result of our instincts. All you have to do to be happy is to be true to yourself and to those around you.
Keep these things in mind when you are building relationships –
- Do not lie
- Do not pretend
- Be Authentic
- Expectations: Be realistic
Takeaway
I have learned to express myself through both failures and successes. The future goal is to live a meaningful and purposeful life. I am currently in a neutral state (Peaceful). It gives me an awareness of the issues and allows me to see them from a distance.
It’s great to learn from the past and avoid making mistakes, but it is also a gift to be able to see other people’s mistakes. These skills are essential for shaping your future.
